This is like pix or it didn't happen. IOWs, sorry but don't discredit a woman without giving us the detail. Say more, lots more, where, how, previous to the meet, etc. Yep, it work both ways. What works for me is to first of all get a good thing going with her before we even ever meet. If she going to scam you, more likely that not you're wasting her time beforehand and she'll move on. Ofc no guarantee. Also, don't get naked first. As least do it together. Or her first. Also, as mentioned, maybe give her half. Or at least put it across the room from both of you. That way if she grabs and dashes at least there is some opportunity to grab it back. Ofc do watch out here for even accidentally hitting her or knocking her over or something like that then you might have charges brought up against you creating a whole other situation. Also, the advise to get upfront to them is unsound IMO. Yeah, it make sense to get your payment if you're getting paid and to get it at the earliest convenience. But AFAIK most of the men scammers are not in person. There is also the issue that if they get paid upfront, then getting more from a guy gets slimmer. Whereas if they don't have paid upfront, they have many opportunities to manipulate more out of a guy (I did this and that for you, or, I need more because I need to pay my bill for whatever, etc.) Anyway, I'm a NYCer all my life. I don't live in panic or distrust however I do live very street smart. That means sometimes doing certain things upfront, being observant, sometimes assuming the worst, positioning yourself for an exit, etc.