Newbie needs advice

[Thronx]

Hi to all,

I'm a soon-to-be first time client, and as with anything new I'm apprehensive (and excited).

Above and beyond the Beginner's Guide, can anyone suggest things to watch for? I'm in NYC and considering Julie's or perhaps an indie. I'm looking for a high standards escort, both in manner and self-care. What do I look out for? How can I find an escort that regards safety high on her priority list? Anything else I can expect?

Thanks in advance, Thronx

[Slinky Bender]

"can anyone suggest things to watch for? "

Sure - advice from self interested parties.

[guy catelli]

Originally posted by Thronx
I'm a soon-to-be first time client, ..... and considering Julie's ... it's almost impossible for even a newbie to go wrong with Julie's. that's because Julie personally makes sure that every client is all but certain to have a good time.

[Slinky Bender]

But seriously - it depends on what price you want to pay, and what type of experience you are looking for. The first thing you ( and you alone ) must decide is what you want. Are you looking for a "great first date", a "fantasy sex experience", or something else ?

[SkellyChamp]

The earth must have stopped spinning on its axis.

I AGREE WITH MR. GUY CATELLI

You will be well-served to make your first at Julies.

We now return you to your regularly scheduled programming.

[LIDAWN]

i agree in new york city hit julies... garenteed to have a too the moon time....
hope that helps.. just a note from one of the girls.....
Dawn

[Slinky Bender]

My only quibble with Skellychamp and GC gets back to my prior post - it depends what you are looking for. Let's say the answer to this question is "I'm looking for an experience with a woman who is so gorgeous that I would be too self conscious to even go up to her at a bar and offer to buy her a drink". If that were the case, would you still recommend Julies ??????

In addition, I would ask for further clarification of the two things he did mention: "high standards" in manner and self care - I'm not sure what this means.

[Carl M]

In particular try Cecilia or Ivy- They have tongue bars- you will get addicted very quickly!

[Thronx]

Thanks to all for the advice. Thronx.

[HornDogBuddah]

Thronx,

Once you have had your initial experience, will you be good enough to report back on what happened?

[Thronx]

I will, HornDogBuddah. If I have my wits about me...

[SkellyChamp]

The reason why i agreed about the suggestion of Julies is the comfort level of the place for a first time encounter. He can have a satisfying session in a no pressure setting. Having never partaken before I am not sure he will really know what he is looking for. - so Julies is I think a great place just to start with a no pressure session.
To answer your question - no I would not recommend Julies for that type of girl with the caveat that what do we know but that for him a lady he sees at Julies is that time of woman to him. Who the hell knows. When I first began oh those many years ago when Rudy was still in law school I thought that at all times that was the type of woman I wanted to be with - the one that I thought was so far above me that I could never see her being with me. But the reality has turned out to be far from that. Not that some of the ladies I've been with haven't been that. But the truth is my gamut runs from large to small, big to thin, pleasant to homely to drop dead gorgeous.

I rec's Julies simply as a comfortable place to go where at the very least he will be with a pleasant person even if the session is not what he is looking for.

As for his high standards in manner and self care i believe he is looking for a pleasant woman and one that meets his level of clean. Fresh smelling and recently showered. No flames please. Standards we all should aspire to.

[Slinky Bender]

Just to be clear, my point wasn't that I dissagreed that Julies might be a good place for a first timer. I agree with you in all your points. I was just pointing out the caveats, because one of the bad things that happens to all of us in this hobby is when you go into a session expecting one thing and getting another. This can ruin sessions which should be good ones. Imagine if your first session turns out to be one of those !