Meeting Someone in Person First Time: How to Protect Oneself

[blongster]

While I usually meetup with well reviewed ladies, I have been trolling some of the well known sugar daddy sites.

Met a hot Russian babe and we have been going back and forth, nice pics (look real but you never know). So now the time has come to meetup in person.

Besides the general things everyone should do: meetup in person in a public place, dont reveal real name, dont use personal cell phone etc...

What you would you look for to spot a scammer or worse a criminal enterprise or blackmail type operation?

Probably I am overthinking but I am sure its happened to someone on this board and they may have good tips for everyone.

[mister pervy]

While I usually meetup with well reviewed ladies, I have been trolling some of the well known sugar daddy sites.

Met a hot Russian babe and we have been going back and forth, nice pics (look real but you never know). So now the time has come to meetup in person.

Besides the general things everyone should do: meetup in person in a public place, dont reveal real name, dont use personal cell phone etc...

What you would you look for to spot a scammer or worse a criminal enterprise or blackmail type operation?

Probably I am overthinking but I am sure its happened to someone on this board and they may have good tips for everyone.
I recently met a sugar-baby from one of the sites for two preliminary meetings.

I used a false name and email, and a prepaid hobby phone.

I absolutely will not give out any information whatsoever that can be traced back to me.

[blongster]

I recently met a sugar-baby from one of the sites for two preliminary meetings.

I used a false name and email, and a prepaid hobby phone.

I absolutely will not give out any information whatsoever that can be traced back to me.

Well, that is a given. I guess a good dose of sixth sense helps a lot. If you feel something is not right, don't let the Little General lose the war.

I was looking for more of specific tells that would indicate a shady setup.

[h4c]

Dont take it the wrong way, but if she's a woman who is out of your league and wouldnt give you a smile, much less bbbj, there something wrong.

If she cant stop telling you how special you are, theres something wrong

And if she knows more about you than she should, theres a problem.

If shes not nervous opr unsure, she could be a provider not a sb type.

If you're worried about blackmail or some criminal taking over your life, this is the wrong hobby for you.

[canthelpit]

I recently met one off of the sugardaddy sites. Fake name, addy, hobby phone is a given. We met at a restaurant/bar in the afternoon, had a couple drinks. This gives you the opportunity to see if she's fucked up, real, whatever.

[puffin]

Dont take it the wrong way, but if she's a woman who is out of your league and wouldnt give you a smile, much less bbbj, there something wrong.

If she cant stop telling you how special you are, theres something wrong...

Fell for that one. Still, I wish her well.

[blongster]

Dont take it the wrong way, but if she's a woman who is out of your league and wouldnt give you a smile, much less bbbj, there something wrong.

If she cant stop telling you how special you are, theres something wrong

And if she knows more about you than she should, theres a problem.

If shes not nervous opr unsure, she could be a provider not a sb type.

If you're worried about blackmail or some criminal taking over your life, this is the wrong hobby for you.

lol. Good point. I take as many reasonable precautions as I can. I usually stick to well reviewed ladies which I think I might keep that policy.

[SirF]

Nice pics is always a dead give away. What site were you on?