Swinger's Parties

[SirF]

One of my ATFs has offered to take me to a swingers party. I just don't know if I should go. I don't really want to see her make out with another dude or run around naked in my underwear watching other's get it on, or even performing for others myself. I really like her. She is a nice girl but am I getting too involved? If I refuse, will she offer anything again? I still pay her for her services but it gets more and more personal every time we meet, which isn't more than once a month or so....I realize I have been UTR for a while, but still. Wouldn't mind getting some additional advice.....

[blackcrowes]

It isn't personal if you directly pay for time and services. Keep it in perspective and go. The cooler you are with everything, the cooler she will be. I highly doubt its reverse psychology to see if you will be "protective" of her... At least you will have fun and she will get paid for the time.

[SirF]

I just don't know if it would be worth dragging my ass out of the house for this experience.

[b1gk1d]

I think you should try to see whats up with it (:

[Cookyman]

What do you have to lose?
Go out for a few hours and try it.

Who knows?
You might have a good time

[fortydog]

Well if she wants you to go, then it should be gratis since you're not really into it.
But that probably wont fly right?

[EventHorizon]

dunno if u went or not. BUt u proballymissed out on a good time.
Humans make decision too often based on feelings. not whats best for us sometimes.
U pay her and take her to a place where u can bone her and whoever else id down.

I go to every single BCD partys...sometimes as a single man..or ill have a fuck buddy come along. long as she knows im going to fuck whoever i want. and when its time to go if shes not ready she better call a cab lol.

[SirF]

No I didn't go. She canceled. I think I really didn't want to blur the lines between us. Once it turns into more than a hobby, there are always problems.

[EventHorizon]

well put.

one missed good time. never equals future headache.

[jimbo44]

I used to go to Checkmates once a month a few years back with a woman I was having a discreet relationship with, and she was married. Anyway, we always hooked up with other cpls there and had sex and sometimes several cpls in the orgy room. There were also several instances that i knew the other woman i would end up with was hooker. So it was cool knowing this and getting sex for free. Of course her date was fucking my woman for free too. Not really tho, as he still had to pay his hooker date.

[UG Staff]

The hypocrisy of the so called "swinging" community towards "sex workers" and "sex work is so far off the charts it can not be measured. It would take too long to got into my usual rant here...... I'll start a thread about it some day.