Lapdance Etiquette question? End of dance?

[Midnight Cowboy]

I know the lapdance thing works a little different with a lot of places but what is the etiquette on when the lap dance ends?

I've had dancers stop at the end of a dance and tell me "would I like another" which I think is typical but recently I was getting a lapdance and I did notice it was carrying on for a while. At the end of what was actually two lap dances the dancer asks me for the cost of two lap dances. I only asked for one. Is it my responsibility to know I'm going into a second dance?

Also, another lap dance at a different place, the dancer told me to take my happy out which I happily complied. She started rubbing the head against her clit and before I knew it I was going at it BB in cowgirl position. I did not ask for this service although while surprised I enjoyed the ride. At the end of the dance she asks me for $50. I probably would have given it to her but funds were not available. She told me to go to the ATM there but I don't make it a habit of using strange ATMs since it leaves a record, not to mention the charge added since it's in a strip club.


So what is the correct etiquette considering that situation?


Thanks
MC

[billyS]

I wouldn't pay for more dances then I asked for. But you have to be careful because she might be in cahoots with a burly bouncer.

The BB cowgirl sounds like she was digging you and got carried away. If you didn't have the $50 then there was nothing you could do. Those ATM's in those places always charge between $2.50 to $5.00 SC.

[BennyBlanc0]

when i'm scoping a club i've never been to, I always ask the damage & length the dances are. After I get the feel of how the club runs, when a dancer asks for a lappy I ask back "how good do you dance?" in a playful tone.

Like billyS mentioned, it depends on the dancer or ymmv. Some girls are clock watchers - 3mins on the dot, not even a whole song! other girls stick with you forever - from what i found these are the fresh ones who would rather be off the floor/not tip parading. happy hunting!

[puffin]

I have had one Russian dancer start to wiggle her ass and tell me three seconds in that I already owed her for the second dance because she had already started. Now I will abruptly say "No i do not want another dance". Sad that I cannot be kinder and say "maybe later". I head that type of hawking off ASAP. (where did this happen you may ask? SVT).

The rules? This is not dating. Protect your cash.

[Chris_888]

When i am at a club I always ask if they can start the lapdance at the start of the next song. At this point I can still make some small talk if you wish, before the next song starts. When I hear that the song is ending or has ended I either decide to go for another or politely decline for another one. For the BB issue well I also agree that she was into you in one way or another!

[Monk]

For the BB issue well I also agree that she was into you in one way or another!

Technical note: he was into her.

[RuffToy]

I only go for one song, but I insist they play Ina Gada Da Vida.

[Scott68]

I only go for one song, but I insist they play Ina Gada Da Vida.

Too funny.

[playdub232]

Also, another lap dance at a different place, the dancer told me to take my happy out which I happily complied. She started rubbing the head against her clit and before I knew it I was going at it BB in cowgirl position. I did not ask for this service although while surprised I enjoyed the ride.

How dare you not tell us about the club wherein this happened, Country boy?


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[Ruv Me Rong Time!!]

I have had the multiple dance without the warning thing happen a few times. I refused to pay for anything more than i agreed to in advance. I tip during the dance according to performance. they dont pry a dime out of me for trying to sucker me. One did threaten to get the bouncer involved. I laughed at her and asked her where she thought she was. The bouncer even if you dont know him is probably gonna side with you if you tell him she never said anything about the multiple dances. Plus... unless you are knocking over tables... what is he gonna do? hes not gonna through you and your money out of there becuase you have a dispute with a dancer.

on the BB issue... you should have gotten her the money. No... you were under no ethical obligation... but there was a moral one there im pretty sure....

[Midnight Cowboy]

How dare you not tell us about the club wherein this happened, Country boy?


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It was Temptations in Passiac NJ