very upset in fla

[lisa]

Hi from fla
this is lisa and i wrote to slinky this morning but thought after awhile i should write this myself
i lost my 8 yr old nephew and my 27 yr old sisterinlaw in a caraccident so i am sorry if i could not take your phone calls or if i did answer i was aloof but i find it disturbing that you gentlemen do not understand how difficult it is for us girls to answer the phone you do not recieve calls from us or you would understand that we can not always speak freely so please until i can be in ny i am sorry but i will not be taking or returning phone calls

xoxo lisa

[Candide]

Lisa - I'm very, very sorry Honey. You have my heartfelt attention and if I can help in any way possible please e-mail me.

carepackage@hotmail.com

[Ozzy]

lisa,
same here..... let J know if theres anything i can help you with, you have my#.

[Edited by Ozzy on 02-19-2001 at 10:56 AM]

[robnotbob]

L: My thoughts and prayers are w/you and your family.

[Paige]

Dear Lisa,
I read your post. You don't know me but having suffered a loss less than a year ago (My precious Nana passed on) I can relate to how u must feel. Please accept my since condolences to you and yours.
With Warm Regards,
Paige of New York

[TuckernotSucker]

My sincere condolences to yo and your family. I hope your heart can heal.
I look foward to seeing you again when you return to NY. In the meantime if there is anything I can do for you please write.

[lisa]

thank you all i will be in touch when i will back in ny
it is a shame that some people have to write negitive things about people when they dont know the situation

but thanks again

lisa

[LIDAWN]

i am so terribly sorry for your loss.. I myself lost my 10 year old god child week before last, she drowned in the bath tub had a siezure.. was very very traumatic...
she was best friends with my daughter even though in south carolina.. there was a minor age difference but they still adored each other..
take your time and grieve and relax.. life goes on just a little more caustious and slow.
you have my deepest sympathy and regards.. i hope all will turn out well for the family and that they can find the strength to mend the way and move on to the rest of their future together..Please know if you need anything that i if not all of us will be here in some capacity to help.. thank you for sharing your life with us.. out of respect i apologize for any insensitivity you may have encountered..
hugz and support DAWn of long island NY

[LIDAWN]

i am so terribly sorry for your loss.. I myself lost my 10 year old god child week before last, she drowned in the bath tub had a siezure.. was very very traumatic...
she was best friends with my daughter even though in south carolina.. there was a minor age difference but they still adored each other..
take your time and grieve and relax.. life goes on just a little more cautious and slow.
you have my deepest sympathy and regards.. i hope all will turn out well for the family and that they can find the strength to mend the way and move on to the rest of their future together..Please know if you need anything that i if not all of us will be here in some capacity to help.. thank you for sharing your life with us.. out of respect i apologize for any insensitivity you may have encountered..
hugz and support Dawn of long island NY

[SS]

Lisa,

Although we never chatted before, I wish to send you positive energy to deal with the difficult situation you are facing currently.

There are no words that can provide enough comfort for such a terrible loss, however I hope to try. I hope you and your family will find strength together supporting each other through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,
SS

[whasssup]

Lisa- please accept my heart felt condolences. I had no idea about the horrible accident. I apologize if I came off as being callous and uncaring.

[jmcurry]

Lisa: I am truly sorry for your loss. I am in Florida, off and on, for the next six weeks. If I can help in any way, please email me. I will respond quickly.

[Tankcommander]

But before we start lashing out, let's get the record straight...

1) you acted this way before the accident, when you were having problems with your appointment.

2) you posted an ad, this means you're asking clients to call you.

3) I have been through tough times, a bad day is no excuse to be rude, especially when you've posted an ad asking clients to call you, and you neglected to tell others why you've had a bad day.

Originally posted by wassup

Finally got a hold of Lisa (American Beauty) last nite. SHe was acting a bit peculiar. I told her I saw her ad on Utopia Guide and was interested in meeting up. She seemed confused and then said she had no interest in meeting up because she was busy. I asked when she would be free and she said not for a long time and hung up the phone



Originally posted by Tankcommander

Her behavior was similar when I called
Something's rotten in the state of Denmark.
Can someone shed light on this? I'm beginning to think there's something more than meets the eye. From my experience, there could be many possibilities. One of them could be that she's somehow made uncomfortable by either LE, or a stalker. Another is that she's a total whacko... Does anyone know?



Please note that "Something rotten in the state of Denmark" is from Shakespeare's Hamlet, and means that something is wrong. But then you probably already know that

[/QUOTE]Originally posted by Ozzy

me thinks she's in fla right now and she probably couldn't talk.

she's a nice person and this doesn't sound like her.

[/QUOTE]

4) as in above excerpt, no one posted anything negative but untrue about you, but rather asking why there seemed to be a problem. We all agreed that you were under some sort of pressure, but that needed an active discussion in order for it to come out.

However, your reaction was...

Originally posted by lisa

it is a shame that some people have to write negitive things about people when they dont know the situation



I am truly sorry for your loss, and I am sure that whasssup and everyone who posted about their negative experience with you, but keep in mind that no one did so maliciously, and only asked why this "out of character" behavior was happening. As soon as Carl mentioned that you lost people special to you, note that these posts ended immediately. As with all the other posters, I offer anything I can do to alleviate your burden. However, I cannot accept, nor see my friends accept blame for what was not their fault.

[lisa]

i am not placing blame on anyone nor have i ever i am just simply stating what the problem is and also that there are other girls out there that at certain times can not answer there phone or if they do can not speak freely and if that situation arises please do not post neg itive remarks about them again if we where to call you gentlemen and your family or coworkers where around we are usaually perseptive enough to relize that you can noty speak at that moment and we do not post negative things about you. :(

[Carl M]

Originally posted by lisa
i am not placing blame on anyone nor have i ever i am just simply stating what the problem is and also that there are other girls out there that at certain times can not answer there phone or if they do can not speak freely and if that situation arises please do not post neg itive remarks about them again if we where to call you gentlemen and your family or coworkers where around we are usaually perseptive enough to relize that you can noty speak at that moment and we do not post negative things about you. :(

Hey sweets- I know the deal! Just got back from your neck of the woods- hope to see you soon!

[Ozzy]

tank...perhaps the wacko comment is what she was refering to. ;)

[candie]

Lisa,

I want to offer my condolences to you. I am very sorry and it must be dreadful for you. I am in tamp/ft.meyers till saturday, if there is anything I can do for you, please email me as I would be more than happy to help you out in anyway I can!!

stay strong, you are in my thoughts,
candie
xx
candiegirl4u@hotmail.com

[jmcurry]

Can't we give Lisa some space and allow her to be human? She has gone through a good deal. Demeaning her, or taking her to task for not answering email or voice mail, rebounds on hobbyists. Give her a break. Until you have lost a family member, or come close to it, you should not lash out at those who have had to compromise their normal routine in the face of grief. If you walked in her shoes, you would not castigate her for being aloof at present.

[Slinky Bender]

I wanted to walk in her shoes, but she said she wasn't into that sort of thing. I had to go back to Marla Maples.

[jmcurry]

Nonetheless, understanding her pain should mitigate against condemnation. Sorry if this does not amuse everyone, but she has been through a lot. We need to offer compassion and sympathy, rather than accusations that she has not returned our calls for sex.

[lisa]

I would like to thank all of you for being understanding and im sorry if i offended any of you but circumstances where out of my control and my family suffered a great loss (ladies thank you as well) im sure you all know that there are times in our lives that we cant control and all of our gentlemen friends need to understand that we try our very best to get back with you in as timely a manner as possible but as ive stated before we sometimes have family or friends that would not quiet understand what we do so if we sound weird on the phone its prabably because there is someone standing there and not us being rude

lots of love to all
Lisa

[Eye Won]

Hey Lisa,
You don't need to say your sory to anyone....Let's face it, your an amazing provider and due to circumstances you can't always be open about what you do over the phone...I understand that, and so should everyone else.
You are a truly amazing person and I can;t wait to se you again....and for everyone here that is going to say Im just kissing ass...not true...she is a wonderful and beautiful woman.....
Imperialone......Out

[TuckernotSucker]

But, would you kiss her ass?

[Eye Won]

Have you seen her ass........I won't even answer that question....She's Perfect,,,,,,
Imperialone...Out