Bachelor Party!

[Mr. W. Coyote]

I need help!!

I am throwing a bachelor party on Long Island (Suffolk) next Friday and things got screwed up! I am looking for a few girls to come and do a show and then MAYBE hang out for a while after with a few of the guys?!

Any help will be appreciated!

[Mr. W. Coyote]

You guys all suck!

[pmerkin]

Having just re-read the rules, I'm a bit hesitant to post the following info as this post is not a review per se, but here goes. . .

Of all the parties I and/or my friends have been to over the years, the one name that comes up over and over again is the infamous Belladonna. No, not the porn star; this woman predates her. She's got a rotating stable of girls that put on a great show, anything goes, and they'll hang around as long as their schedule allows and the money flows.

Slinky, can I post Web site info? If not, W.C., perhaps I've given enough for a Web search to take you the rest of the way there.

[NoName2]

Having used Bella Donna's girls many, many times, I can say that the potential is there for the ultimate bachelor party, but YMMV is a major understatement with them. Bella herself is an absolute boatload of fun - wild and up for anything, but if looks are a primary consideration, she falls down the list. (I'd put her at about a 5-6 on my personal scale). Some of her girls are very hot, and the range goes on down. Bella can not be reiled on to be absolutely sure that the girl(s) you request are the ones who show up, but she is probably around 75% reliable in this. I can't review the individual girls becasue it has been years since I've used them and don't recall names. For the most part, the show itself is as wild as it comes and unlimited extras are available afterwards - often you can negotiate one or two 'freebies' into the price of the show. I have had very good experiences and very bad ones (i.e. - girls showing up with the flu and sitting on the sidelines, girl showing up with her angry, jealous boyfriend) with Bella's girls, but the good has outweighed the bad. Overall, when it comes down to it, its worth the shot - its hard to do better when it comes to bachelor party girls who know what you want and come ready to provide it.

[orden]

Hello,

I am newbie and have a question very similar to the orinial posters'. We are throwing a divorce party for a friend, and are looking for a few providers. No show is necessary. If anyone could recommend something, or at least how to approach this, I would really appreciate it.

Thanks!

[lightweight]

Hello,

I am newbie and have a question very similar to the orinial posters'. We are throwing a divorce party for a friend, and are looking for a few providers. No show is necessary. If anyone could recommend something, or at least how to approach this, I would really appreciate it.

Thanks!

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[orden]

lightweight, thanks for your reply, but i am looking for reviews/suggestions to narrow down my choices.

[biohazard]

lightweight, thanks for your reply, but i am looking for reviews/suggestions to narrow down my choices.

try the search feature

[orden]

try the search feature

have been searching all day :) unfortunately i haven't found anything that fits my scenario

[biohazard]

what are ya looking for ? Try putting a ad up in erotic section of CL see what comes up.

[orden]

what are ya looking for ? Try putting a ad up in erotic section of CL see what comes up.

well i am open to suggestions, but so far the idea was to get together in a friend's place or close down a small private party room or a spa. 4 guys, need anywhere from 2-4 providers. CFS, if i have my acronyms down correctly... have tried posting on CL in the past but little or no luck. any help would be appreciated!

[orden]

well i am open to suggestions, but so far the idea was to get together in a friend's place or close down a small private party room or a spa. 4 guys, need anywhere from 2-4 providers. CFS, if i have my acronyms down correctly... have tried posting on CL in the past but little or no luck. any help would be appreciated!

or is it just FS? :)

[wolf5958]

well i am open to suggestions, but so far the idea was to get together in a friend's place or close down a small private party room or a spa. 4 guys, need anywhere from 2-4 providers. CFS, if i have my acronyms down correctly... have tried posting on CL in the past but little or no luck. any help would be appreciated!

May I suggest that what you want is not something most serve. I think you would be wise to setup something with a reliable provider for an outcall. Set it up in a hotel suit so that you can keep it under control. When you contact the provider/s explaine what you want to do and get pricing for all. There are several conpanies/agencies that provide dancers for such and involvement is allowed but no FS. Again contacting these people and giving details will go a long way in getting this done. You may need to make these arrangements well in advance to help ease the providers fears/ and from my experince they will travel with thier own security so be prepared to pay a premium. I wish I could give you names but it has been years since I set anything like this up and no longer have my contacts.

[orden]

May I suggest that what you want is not something most serve. I think you would be wise to setup something with a reliable provider for an outcall. Set it up in a hotel suit so that you can keep it under control. When you contact the provider/s explaine what you want to do and get pricing for all. There are several conpanies/agencies that provide dancers for such and involvement is allowed but no FS. Again contacting these people and giving details will go a long way in getting this done. You may need to make these arrangements well in advance to help ease the providers fears/ and from my experince they will travel with thier own security so be prepared to pay a premium. I wish I could give you names but it has been years since I set anything like this up and no longer have my contacts.

thanks, wolf. as an alternative, i would consider a venue where we could potentially meet girls and make arrangements to meet with them aftewards. any suggestions on finding something like that?

[wolf5958]

thanks, wolf. as an alternative, i would consider a venue where we could potentially meet girls and make arrangements to meet with them aftewards. any suggestions on finding something like that?

On LI you may get lucky at some of the strip clubs but that is hit or miss. I am not very formiluar with the city so I would be of no help there. What you want to do is best done with an agency. They will want to do a full screening of you and your venue. This will not be cheap since you will be looking at 2 or 3 girls for multipule hours. Be prepared to cash in your 401K plan to pay for it. LOL No seriouly it will not be cheap. There are strippers/dancers that run parties like this and it is less expensive, but there is no FS. Again a lot of this has to do with the location of your party.

[orden]

On LI you may get lucky at some of the strip clubs but that is hit or miss. I am not very formiluar with the city so I would be of no help there. What you want to do is best done with an agency. They will want to do a full screening of you and your venue. This will not be cheap since you will be looking at 2 or 3 girls for multipule hours. Be prepared to cash in your 401K plan to pay for it. LOL No seriouly it will not be cheap. There are strippers/dancers that run parties like this and it is less expensive, but there is no FS. Again a lot of this has to do with the location of your party.

whew, this is turning out to be more difficult than i first imagined :) i think those few trips to eastern europe have really spoiled me... anyway, thanks for all the info!

[Thorn]

Hello,

I am newbie and have a question very similar to the orinial posters'. We are throwing a divorce party for a friend, and are looking for a few providers. No show is necessary. If anyone could recommend something, or at least how to approach this, I would really appreciate it.

Thanks!

Two ways to do it...

If you want to really do it right get a hotel suite with a conference room set up next door. The ideal situation is one with a connecting suite to the conference room. A lot of places have these set ups. Tropicana in Atlantic City is ideal, and they know how to look the other way.

Scout the location and find out who the desk manager is who is going to be on duty that night. Advance book with him and feel him out. Tell him it is for a "Divorce Party". Give the guy a little advance taste and suggest a good tip is his for any assistance he might be able to extend you. You'll be tipping a couple of other people as well, including housekeeping who will clean up your mess after you finish.

Staff your party from either a local stripper agency or one of the provider agencies listed on UG. Some of them do the bachelor/divorce party thing. If you have to do it on the fly go to some strip-clubs you enjoy, talk to a few of the dancers and see if you can book a private party. Don't expect extras unless they specifically say they are available. Book providers to supply those. This is dicey as no-shows are inevitable. if you need 3 dancers, book at least 4 or 5 and be ready to pay if 4 or 5 actually show up [odds are you'll get 2-3].

Second choice is to find a small hall that will work with you. The best bets are back rooms in local bars, but they have licensing to worry about so they will want you to keep the fun and frolic down to acceptable levels. Private clubs with halls for hire [Elks, etc] work better, but you generally need an in... like one of the party attendees being a member and acting as go-between to work that out. Tip their staff very well to keep their mouth shut about the shenanigans going on. If the hall has a connected coat room that no one out front can see the traffic going in and out of do what you can to turn that into a VIP. [find a couch, etc]

Either way you go have a designated "fixer". Someone who is willing to forgo playing and keep an eye out for potential trouble and make things right BEFORE anything bad happens. He should have the best "eye for potential problems" and people skills of those attending the party. A natural born leader and problem solver that other people will listen to. This guy has to keep his head on straight and stay near the front door most of the night. The guys should agree, for the fixers not having any fun at the party, to get him laid after everything is said and done. :)

[Boywonder2]

Thorn,
you sound like you have done this once or twice. You get my vote.

[Thorn]

well i am open to suggestions, but so far the idea was to get together in a friend's place or close down a small private party room or a spa. 4 guys, need anywhere from 2-4 providers. CFS, if i have my acronyms down correctly... have tried posting on CL in the past but little or no luck. any help would be appreciated!

Dude, you should have said it was going to be such a small party... :)

Much easier to set up.

Ideal is mid-week in busy business style hotel [lots of traffic going on and no one notices whose coming and going. Check hotels in big industrial parks and near airports. Get adjoining suites. Staff the party with providers from one of those advertised on UG. 2-4 providers. Make sure the Madam knows it's for a party. They may even work out a 2 girl show for you with toys, etc. Keep the party in one of the suites. Ad****n into the connecting suite for sexual hi-jinx [other than the girl-girl party]. Tip housekeeping well as they WILL know what went on in the room when they see all the rubber wrappers in the room, etc. Usual is $5-$10 bux for an overnight in one suite. Tip them $20-$40 [depending on how big a mess you make] for each suite you use. Should be plenty.

Again, the fixer stays sober and ready to straighten out a problem with anyone who comes to the door of either suite [neighbor, staff, room service, hotel detective, what-have-you]. If you keep the noise down though no one will be the wiser.

Get connecting rooms down at the end of a hallway if you can. That keeps too many people from passing in front of your door on the way to their room where they can hear what is going on inside.

[Thorn]

Thorn,
you sound like you have done this once or twice. You get my vote.

I've helped a friend or three [or more] out in my day with their bachelor parties.

I have developed my own "book" at this point and can call dancers as needed, though I have never used it for that purpose. And as a "fixer" I would put my skills up against just about anyone's. Though I wouldn't want to get laid... but paid, if I ever decided to do this as a business. :)

I wonder... they have wedding party planners, after all.

"Thorn Enterprises. Bachelor, Bachelorette, Divorce Party Planning"

I guess it could work. :)

[the thought of headaches:dollar earned ratio though makes my head swim. That is what makes me think Slinky and Allen are masochists when they put a BIG party together for the likes of us, and why I am more then happy to show my appreciation by helping out when I can.]

[Slinky Bender]

First question: what's you budget?

[Thorn]

First question: what's you budget?

Slinky is right. Went totally by me [and the rest of us]. First question is always how much is in the kitty [or what those attending are willing to split between them].

[lightweight]

Wow, Thorn. Very impressive. You just talked me into doing something like this.

[magicfingersny]

ORDEN there is a wealth of information here as suggested to you in another thread. I sumbled blindly onCL for over a year aplus. One of the guys from here directed me here from Cl & I read and learned, sampled the well reviewedand have learned more here in about 2 months & made some great acquaintances to boot. Just put in a bit of effort., visit a provider & write a review or 2. As wolf said baby steps, crawl before you jump into the deep end of the pool with a bunch of your buddies. There are gems here amongst the vast amount of trach I tripped over on cl before. Slinky & allen work real hard to make sure this board works & the membership just makes it all better. The information is priceless. Just start with new posts & go frmthere.

[orden]

I've helped a friend or three [or more] out in my day with their bachelor parties.

I have developed my own "book" at this point and can call dancers as needed, though I have never used it for that purpose. And as a "fixer" I would put my skills up against just about anyone's. Though I wouldn't want to get laid... but paid, if I ever decided to do this as a business. :)

I wonder... they have wedding party planners, after all.

"Thorn Enterprises. Bachelor, Bachelorette, Divorce Party Planning"

I guess it could work. :)

[the thought of headaches:dollar earned ratio though makes my head swim. That is what makes me think Slinky and Allen are masochists when they put a BIG party together for the likes of us, and why I am more then happy to show my appreciation by helping out when I can.]

All I can say is - wow! That was very impressive. If you ever start that business, sign me up as your first customer :) In the meantime I'll go and try to digest all this info. As for the budget, I am kinda flexible - what do you think the right budget should be in this case? And quality IS of importance here as well :)

[orden]

ORDEN there is a wealth of information here as suggested to you in another thread. I sumbled blindly onCL for over a year aplus. One of the guys from here directed me here from Cl & I read and learned, sampled the well reviewedand have learned more here in about 2 months & made some great acquaintances to boot. Just put in a bit of effort., visit a provider & write a review or 2. As wolf said baby steps, crawl before you jump into the deep end of the pool with a bunch of your buddies. There are gems here amongst the vast amount of trach I tripped over on cl before. Slinky & allen work real hard to make sure this board works & the membership just makes it all better. The information is priceless. Just start with new posts & go frmthere.

So far got one hit off CL, will try to pursue this one further. So far these forums have been extremely helpful, I don't know what the hell I was doing looking on CL before... Thanks!

[Thorn]

All I can say is - wow! That was very impressive. If you ever start that business, sign me up as your first customer :) In the meantime I'll go and try to digest all this info. As for the budget, I am kinda flexible - what do you think the right budget should be in this case? And quality IS of importance here as well :)

Depends on what kind of time you have in advance to put it together. If you can pre-book a couple of adjoining suites a few weeks in advance when the hotel is going to be "soft" on booking you will be able to save some money. If you have to do it for a couple of days from now that may mean you will pay a premium.

[Do NOT do A.C. in the beginning of March. There are a couple of very large conventions in the city during that time. It means rooms are sparse and all the working gals are busy].

If you have six people I wouldn't think you can get away with this for less than $500-$600/person. That would be for two suites, booze, food, 2 dancers w/toy show and 2 providers]. $500-$600 [high end room + tips]; $200-$300 booze [don't forget wine and champagne for the gals] and mixers; $400-$600 for high class eats [there is much room to cut here if you go sandwiches, etc... but high class I'm talking high end finger foods, pate, a little - I said a little - caviar, etc; $1800 for entertainment $400 for a couple hours of dancers w/toy show - plus tips for lap dances, extras if available and around $200-$300 for the providers for each dude to get FS attention]

Nothing about a night like this is cheap. You can cut down on it with things like swapping out street gals for higher class providers. For instance, if you want to take a chance you could send a guy to recon out on Atlantic Ave and bring back street walkers who would take care of the attending for about $50-$100/guy. You could probably find them when you want them, but you might not and than no providers... but why would you want to go that route in the first place?

When negotiating the strippers and the providers with the agencies [which would be the way I would go with this] make sure to see if you can get package/specials that include services for the groom, or groom and best man, thown in if they won't negotiate on the base price.

[Thorn]

And you must, must, must deal with a reputable agency. Any of the ones advertised on UG would probably be just fine.

It would blow, and not in a good way, to get into the party and find bait & switch gals coming to the door at the appointed time, or worse, gals who want the base fee and than announce that everything is "a la carte".

[aceofclubs26]

I nominate this thread as a sticky for the proper way to handle a bachelor party!

By the way, what coventions are going on in AC the first weekend in March? I'm going to be down there and I already know the State Wrestling Finals and a Fashion Convention. Anything else?

[conyc]

I'm gonna resurrect this as I need to plan some entertainment for a buddy's bachelor party. Problem in the city is finding a decent location, so not sure that's going to work on short notice. My question is, are there any incall places or spas that could accomodate 10 guys at once? Let alone around midnight on a Saturday night. Any help would be appreciated. Most places I know max out around 6 providers.