stripper advice needed

[out of control]

I met a stripper October of last year who I really connected with. I’m 20 years older than her but I’m in good shape considered handsome. She gave me her cell number and we’ve talked several times on the phone. I’ve been telling her how much I want to sleep with her and she’s been telling me that she’s willing to see me outside the club. We even discussed how much her time would cost. We’ve set tentative dates three times and then I don’t hear from her. She’ll give me a lame excuse and then tell me she really wants to get together. She says she’s never done this before and she admitted she feels nervous about it. I can’t decide if she’s just jerking me around or if she really likes me but can’t make up her mind about turning pro. I m thinking the session would be total GFE and the girl is beautiful. Should I go to the club and talk to her again or am I being a chump?

[Casper]

Post the name of the girl and the club and I'll report back to you.

[DESERTJOE]

This may be a minority opinion but all dancers are different and it's possible she just kind of liked you but never intended to become a whore in the truest sense. I'd go back and see her at the club (assuming you enjoy that) but lay off the hard sell for the date and see if she brings it up again.

[Slimmy]

Remember rule # 1 on strippers: THEY ARE FLAKES! They will flake out on you almost every time. Most are unreliable. In other words, play along with her, but make sure you have plan B in place, as I am sure plan A will not come to fruition! Just my experience.

[out of control]

Thanks. I think I’m going to hang in for a while longer. Now we’re sending each other text messages. I sent her a message to see if she was working today and got an immediate response. “How are u when are u free.” etc. When I do go to the club she spoils me with high milage Laps (tits in my mouth, grabbing my crotch, pulling her thong aside to show her snatch, dirty talk in the ear.) I just can’t figure her out. I’ve offered to take her out to dinner but she said she doesn’t have time and if she sees me it will be for sex. I know I should just stick with the pros but now its like an ego thing I want this conquest

[jseah]

it sounds to me like she is dangling that carrot at the end of your nose so you can keep going into the club to see her and give her more money..........

if she had any intention....or desire....you see you outside the club, she would have made plans already.

[genius]

Originally posted by out of control
....When I do go to the club she spoils me with high milage Laps (tits in my mouth, grabbing my crotch, pulling her thong aside to show her snatch, dirty talk in the ear.) .....I’ve offered to take her out to dinner but she said she doesn’t have time .... I know I should just stick with the pros... As far as just sticking "with the pros", in this instance you are very much in the hands of a pro - so much so that although you have written all the facts needed by any rational person to identify what's going on, you do not see it.

As jseah put it "if she had any intention....or desire....you see you outside the club, she would have made plans already."

You are being played.

[WSG-Stoner]

You are being played. Your looks, your attitude, your inclinations all lead to SUCKER.

From first hand experience, yes, she may never had did it before, but when she is serious about something she'll initiate and be serious about it.

1. Never think about Strippers liking you. They live in such a way to weave impressions, and put out a tremendous amount of sexual energy for a fee. Let the illusion make you smile, but go no further with that.

2. Purify your motives. You want to doggy fuk her or you want her to make you breakfast in the morning? If you just want to slide and slip into her cunt, then stay focused on that. Don't seek signals saying anything else. Don't accept signals telling you any different.

3. Plan B. She will constantly prefer the relationship to stay status quo. You come to the club, she makes money off your ass in any case...and she knows that after you fuk her, you'll be done with her. Be honest with yourself, you know thats how it is for us men. Unless you plan to bear her kids, she knows that you, like the 200 other men who propositioned her this past two weeks, want to slip her the sausage.

So have a plan B. Whatever it is...let it tide you over. She blows you off, you move to plan B with no regrets. Let Plan A simmer until ready.

4. Have a striaght talk, man. Acknowledge to yourself that she's probably has 5 to 10 other guys in this quasi state. She may even be porking a few of them. The one that treats her like shes just an ugly piece of ass is the one getting it for free, while you pay a fee to stand in line. She'll deny it all day long. She may not even realize she has them waiting by their phones, dick in hand, soto speak. But she does. So stop being a pussy about it. Your fixated. Be persistent, not manic...and you'll get that poon.

Good luck.

[out of control]

I do recognize that you guys are probably right. However I only go to the club about once a month (which is my normal strip club quota) when I see her we talk for about an hour, ( She’s better than a therapist ) then I spend $ on her which is also within my normal quota. I’ve only seen her 4 times! So I haven’t changed my normal strip club habits and I don’t think that she gives out her cell # to anyone who asks. She alluded to a bad experience she once had with a stalker and I did my best to assure her that I was cool. Maybe she’s testing me to see how I react to being blown off. After she blows me off I don’t try to contact her for at least a week then when I do she responds. I do feel like I wasting a lot of mental energy on her which is somewhat frustrating but when my phone vibrates from one of her text messages I get a hardon.

[jseah]

if you want to see if she looks at you as a potential date or a walking wallet, try this.........

next time you go to her club, have her sit with you for the hour. when it is time for the dance (does she initiate or you?), don't spend any money on her......or better yet, get a dance with another girl.

then you will see how fast she drops you.

you mention a "high mileage" dance when she dances for you......but you don't mention whether she lets you touch the kitty or anything more than just sucking on her tits.......that doesn't sound very high mileage to me.

[jseah]

heh.....this cracks me up......here I am giving advice.....

[brooksupstate]

you definitely ARE being played, but, if it's true that you only go to the club once a month, then it sounds like you've got the situation under control.

Relax and enjoy the laps. Any time you spend thinking about an outside the club GFE is wasted.

Carry on.

[out of control]

I needed to hear this which is I posted and I do appreciate the advice. I also know the odds aren’t good but its been about three weeks since I’ve seen her and we text message each other on average three days a week. I want to try and close this deal one last time before I abandon my quest. Should I go to the club and ask her to be honest with me or go and not mention getting together or stay away play it cool for another week

[Casper]

Text message her that you want to fuck her 6 ways from sunday.

See what she replies.

[jseah]

ooc,

if you ask her to be honest with you, she will just lie and tell you what you want to hear.........

the words honest and stripper are mutually exclusive terms....like military and intelligence.

when she blows you off, and then you are the one contacting her, she knows she has you hooked.

[genius]

Originally posted by jseah
ooc,
if you ask her to be honest with you.....when she blows you off, and then you are the one contacting her, she knows she has you hooked. The problem is if she really is to be "honest" with you she would use the exact same words and emotions that she would use to string a sucker along. You have know way of knowing which.

BTW - that click, click, click sound you hear in the background is the sound of a heavy duty fishing reel pulling in another sucker. For non-fishermen out there it goes like this:
1. You put some attractive bait to the sucker (I mean fish) on a hook.
2. You place the bait in the environment where the fish are and jiggle it around a bit - not too much (scares them away) and not too little (lose interest).
3. If you feel a tug or 2 on the line you don't jerk it right away.
4. On the 3rd tug you jerk the line to set the hook.
5. You reel in the fish .
6. On board you quicky cut its guts out (while alive and flapping) and throw them overboard and keep the good stuff.

[genius]

I left out step 7

7. Rebait the hook and cast the line out again.

[Mr. Sinatra]

Dude,

I cant figure out what all the text messaging bullshit is all about.
Why waste all that fuckin energy with nonsense?

Its very simple. The next text message should be something like this:


YOU: Hey (insert broad's name here)....... I got a couple of dead presidents that are burning a hole in my pocket. I'm free on (insert fuckdate here). Me meet at (insert hotsheets motel here).

Dont be late.

HER: Sure Baby. I'll be there.


Thats about how it should go.

[Cloud Nine]

I miss the "master" of this topic.

[flabbergasted]

Just tell her you have $$$ for her and see if she bites.

[WSG-Stoner]

Odds aren't good for what? Listen, you have all the time in the world to pork her. Be patient. You'll get it.

Dude, my luck with strippers is funny. I'll work on 2 or 3 at a time. 3 different fishing lines going...and I just sit back.

Just when one starts to bite...they all are biting the same god damn time! Cash reserves go low for a moment as I get as much poon as I can...and then they (or I) fade. Usually its me.

They've got bait...and we've got bait. My bait appreciates over time...theirs depreciates.

Be patient. You've got time. Just use the big head to make your moves man...as the King says..."Never make your move too soon."

[out of control]

Stoner thanks for the encouragement. I was just about to give it up. I think I’m just going to wait for a week and see if she contacts me. All this texting BS is getting old. Sometimes its fun but it gets frustrating. I think I need to change tactics but not sure of the proper approach. Yesterday I told her I might stop by but didn’t. So I sent her a message that I was busy and lets try to get together next week. To which she replied OK. Then I totally fucked up by asking het to let me know if this is never going to happen so I can forger about her. To which she replied “chill out”. Then I apologized like a little bitch. I’m hopeless.

[WSG-Stoner]

At least you are becoming more honest with yourself.

Seriously...don't sweat it. Thats the big thing. The wait is well worth it...well sort of. Just keep it all in perspective. IMX, great looking strippers are the worst in bed. They aren't very sure of themselves, and they are often very self conscious folks. There is more fun in the chase, than the capture.

Unfortunately, most of us pay through nose to learn that piece of data.

Slow down, enjoy each step. When you get there, you'll enjoy it, put a knotch on your belt, and then the fixation will be over. She'll fade and your penis will grow another inch for the next stripper you get the hots for.

Such a beautiful, vicious cycle.

[jseah]

Originally posted by out of control
Then I totally fucked up by asking het to let me know if this is never going to happen so I can forger about her. To which she replied “chill out”. Then I apologized like a little bitch. I’m hopeless.

damn........you sound like me.......

BTDT......never again.

[UG Staff]

As an old pal in High School used to say, "But are you gettin' any?"

Is it really worth it?

[curious]

Depends on which "it" you place more value on at the time. :D

[WSG-Stoner]

I'm curious...how did it go with her? Do you need me to come down and bust her cherry for you? :)

Inquiring minds want to know. LOL.

[out of control]

Okay here’s the update. I went to the club last Friday. When I walked in she was working on some guy who had apparently bought her a drink. I watched her work from a distance thinking I was a fool to think I was any different from the guy she was working on. Shortly after I arrived she was called to the stage to dance. I approached her and she gave me a hug and kiss (on the cheek) After her set, she abandoned the guy she was with and came over and sat on my lap. We spent the next hour having an intense conversation. Unlike our other conversations,( about my problems) this time she told me about herself and some of her issues. She brought up getting together again and said she’s still nervous about it and how would it work ( Do we just say hi and get naked?) She was asking me what I like sexually etc. The laps were the best yet. Tits in the mouth, hands on the tits, hands on the ass, got on the knees and jerked me off over my pants. When she pulled her thong aside I remembered Jseah’s comment about touching the kitty so I went for it. Lets just say I was smelling my finger all night. When I left she told me that she’s glad I came (pardon the pun) and she feels more comfortable with me now and that we would get together after her midterms in two weeks. So this week I’ve played it cool no messages and I haven’t heard from her.( Of course I was helped by the fact that my ATF was working at one of the latina houses. Talk about GFE! ) I can’t decide If I should call her or just wait it out. Stoner you’re approach is correct. What’s the rush. As long as I’m enjoying the chase its cool. I’m sticking to my once a month quota. If it happens I’ll announce it to the world.

[george1948]

So this week I’ve played it cool no messages and I haven’t heard from her.( Of course I was helped by the fact that my ATF was working at one of the latina houses. Talk about GFE! ) I can’t decide If I should call her or just wait it out. Stoner you’re approach is correct. What’s the rush. As long as I’m enjoying the chase its cool. I’m sticking to my once a month quota. If it happens I’ll announce it to the world. [/B]

Wait it out....what've you got to lose?

BTW, you're pining over her AND you have an "ATF"???

WTF?

[southernman_ken]

Originally posted by out of control
Tits in the mouth, hands on the tits, hands on the ass, got on the knees and jerked me off over my pants. When she pulled her thong aside I remembered Jseah’s comment about touching the kitty so I went for it. Lets just say I was smelling my finger all night. When I left she told me that she’s glad I came (pardon the pun) and she feels more comfortable with me now and that we would get together after her midterms in two weeks. S.

How much did these little session in club set you back? I am guessing a pretty penny. Why should she see you outside, where she will have to do more when you are likely paying thru the nose for a little grope and tug in the club? Try NOT paying her in the club, other than a drink or two. And tell her you are saving yourself for outside the club.

She will either blow you off, or meet you outside. Why are you you letting HER set the terms? It is your money, your time. YOU set the terms - no more real money until you meet me outside the club. It is not like there is any lack of other girls.


And one last comment - you are NOT the only one she does this with. A friend of mine uses a tag line I love - I am fucking your favorite tonight.

Get tough.

[WSG-Stoner]

Well done, Out of Control. Well done.

Now...my services are not for free. I've never done the latina house before. (No such thing in my part of New England)

Is the details available somewhere? Hook a brother up! :)

[WSG-Stoner]

BTW...I know what its like to have an ATF on the side, something at home, and a stripper you are pining for.

Hell, right now I've got 6 different situations bubbling over, and not enough time and resources for them all. So I am biding my time like your stripper friend is. Putting them off, call sporadically, let things happen slowly, etc. All in the hope of popping it hot with this big tit, nice ass spanish college student first. Fixations are a hard thing to control...so enjoy the ride.

[out of control]

Stoner Thanks for the encouragement. I’d like to help u out but I don’t want to violate “da rules” I got into my first latina house (years ago) through the queens tribune It’s a free paper available all over queens. Look for the ads that mention Spanish girls. They should have a half hour rate of $. I could ****** you further details if u want to post your ****** add but that might be a no-no

[justme]

I wrote this a long time ago...

http://utopiaguide.com/forums/showthread.php?postid=199650#post199650

[out of control]

Justme That is some astute analysis. You’re like the professor of pussy. This is a textbook case of the good girl stripper syndrome. If your theory is correct then I’m getting close.

[edrag0n2k]

outofcontrol,

IMHO, if you think of all these women the same (AMP, SW, FS, Stripper), you will always come out ahead:

1) They are in a business, period.
It is a great ego boost to think they find you special in some way, but women (in and out of the business) have been pulling this on us men forever (think Eve and apple).

2) If you don't take it seriously it will probably be a more winning proposition for you. And you won't be as disappointed IF she ends up being more attracted to your wallet.

Plus you greedy bastard, you have an ATF that sounds like she keep you pretty happy...8^ )

Just my $.02

[out of control]

Edrag

I’ve always been able to keep this stuff in perspective but I’ve let this girl get under my skin. Even my ATF, who professes to be in love with me and who’s favors I greatly appreciate, doesn’t effect me like she does. I broke my one month rule and went back on Friday after only two weeks. I wasn’t planning to go but after leaving work early and discovering that all of my latina houses were closed (Good Friday) I figured WTF. When I arrived she was at the bar surrounded by three guys who all had their hands on her. Again I’m thinking I’m such an asshole. Luckily she was called to the stage and after seeing me, left the guys and hung with me. Her laps were as nasty as ever and after about twenty minutes of dancing she sat on my lap put her hand on my johnson (over the pants ) and finished me off. She was also kissing me for the first time (on the neck only) when I asked her what I owed she only wanted .8$. I gave her $ and she was ready to give me change!! When I asked about getting together she wanted to know if I would mind waiting until school was over in May. Whatever. I haven’t had so much fun in a strip club since the harmony closed. For u queens latina fans I consoled myself today by having an excellent session with Helen. That girl is hot. Does anyone know what “lindo” means. These chicks keep saying that word when I’m done with them.

[justme]

beautiful / pretty

[deejaysurfer]

Hi guy's I love this board and love this thread!

I myself have got my eye on a stripper I'd like to see outside and am wondering how I should go about it. I've gotten a couple of decent mileage lap dances with her rubbing me through my pants with her hands. I mentioned to her that I'd like to hook up outside and she seemed receptive and asked me for my businesscard and asked when she should call me. I was gonna be out of town till the following week so I asked her to call me then. I really did not put to much hope in the idea that she would call, but what the hell! Well As I expected she didn't call. I read a lot of posts from you guys talking about takeout and am reaching out for some tips on how to accomplish my Goal! I am gettin a good vibe from this girl and I think if I play my cards right more may be on the menu but I don't want to screw it up or spend my lungs trying.
Whaddayasay Hook a brother up!

[Casper]

If you want to ever hook up with her, take control. That means don't just give her your tel# but get one in return. This way when she doesn't call you (and they won't cause YOU aren't the only one looking to bag her) you can initiate a call and take it from there. If she's not willing to give you her tel# then she might just be stringing you along.

[deejaysurfer]

thanks for the reply Casper!

I'm hopin to go tomorrow evening and see what happens

I'll give it a try and see if she gives up her number. I've only seen her a couple of times and the last time I was there I had to leave before I could have a lap dance with her. I explained to her that I had come to see her and only her but had to leave. She smiled and told me to come back next week( tomorrow) luckily I didn't spend too much that night as I was in a rush and really only stopped in there in hopes of getting a dance with her

[lapdancefan]

Originally posted by deejaysurfer
...some tips on how to accomplish my Goal!

Best bet is to be prepared to take her out right then and there. Have all your supplies in the car and a plan for where you can take her. Then ask her to go with you when her shift ends or maybe leave early with you.

Happy hunting!

[deejaysurfer]

I am going tonight and will let you guys know how I make out

any other tips for for success?

I will try and get her number but not sure if she'll give it up maybe I can ask her for an ***** address as well. As for being ready to take her out right then and there I'm not sure if I could pull that one off cause I'm going early( as soon as club opens and will certainly have to leave before she will finished) got to go home to wifey at some point. It would be best if I could coax her to meet me during her non working hours as I can skip out of the office every now and then for a couple of hours without anybody noticing.

[justlooking]

Originally posted by deejaysurfer
It would be best if I could coax her to meet me during her non working hours as I can skip out of the office every now and then for a couple of hours without anybody noticing.

Assuming she works the 8 PM - 4 AM night shift, you will probably be the first person ever to get a night shift stripper to do anything during the day if you succeed at that.

[deejaysurfer]

What the hell, I'm gonna give it Try and see what happens
the worst thing that could happen is she won't go for and continue giving me excellent dances. I'll let you know how I make out

[justlooking]

No wait. You've got other options. Like seeing her outside the club on NIGHTS she isn't working.

[deejaysurfer]

Well I went last night and to my dismay the girl I went to see was not there. It turns out that the last time I was there, There was this other girl who came and sat by me as soon as I got there and she was very hot, but after talking with her I could tell mileage would be limited so I didn't waste any time or money on a dance. Well Last night the same girl was there and told me that the last time it was her first night there. so I Asked her how her first night went and she said it It didn't go to well because the other girls were being mean to her. When I asked her why she said it was because she sat with me as soon as I got there( I got here just as club opened so I was one of only three customers in the place) and the girl I originally went to see got Pissed at her for moving in on me before she could get off the stage and come and see me. ultimately time ran out for me as I had an appointment I had to be at so I Left. I guess she was pissed at the new girl for moving in on a customer before she had even taken a turn on the dance floor and apparently they got in a huge arguement about it. So I think she switched what nights she dances there so as to not have to dance on the same night the new girl is there. Anyway I had dance with with the girl that was there last night and it was ok but nowhere near my experience with the other girl. Guess I'll just have to keep on Truckin' and try again

[WSG-Stoner]

I love it when they squabble like that. This is to your advantage.

1. Find out when your current girl is on the schedule. Hit her up then. You definitely have a discussion piece.

2. Be firm. If she's not going to meet with you...call her on it. Tell her you're not trying to make a marraige proposal to her. You just want some fun outside of the joint. Its all business and pleasure, but mostly business.

3. If you were clever, you have a very interesting out with the new girl. You sure she can't spark it for you...or is it just your fixation.

I've been in a similar boat. Local to me was my all time favorite brothel type joint. You easily had up to 24 chicks to choose from on any given night. Chicks flew in from across country to make their money on a regular basis.

MY regular ATF had left the joint a few months back, and so I chose a new beauty to be my current ATF. She was great, and gorgeous, but she didn't measure in the heart like the affections for my old time ATF. I still had bed/lunch with my old ATF on occassion...but no frequency. I missed her.

Well...my old ATF decided to return to the joint. I didn't know. I had scheduled with my current ATF, but when I saw the old oneOne of my ATFs was there. Always gave me an incredible time. But variety is the spice of life!

So when this other girl from Florida was available, I came in, and instead of my ATF, I chose her for the eve. Had a great time.

The next week I came in, and my "current" ATF had nothing but cold shoulder for me. When it dawned on me, I started asking. Apparently, the fur started flying after I left the previous week. I encouraged her and we talked. Boy did the water works come down, right in the middle of the mens' locker room. She just hugging and holding on to me like it was for dear life. We had a good fuck that night.

Thinking back, I should have stayed in touch with her. But I was fixated for sure. If I was a true player, I would have kept them both. My game doesn't run that deep.

[deejaysurfer]

Yeah I figured it was a good thing for them to be squabbling over Me! I'm pretty sure the new girl is not up for outside activity as when we talked the week before she was telling me all the of the other places she has danced and she mentioned that the only type of places she wouldn't dance were the nude clubs cause she saves showing her coochie for her boyfriend. That seemed like an instant flag that she is not interested in anything Outside.

The dance I got from her last night was ok, pretty good grind with some limited roaming she let me kiss her covered tits and let me pet her coochie a little (covered) any way Sent a message to the clubs website asking when my fav will be there again and will try and use the info I got regarding the squabble as a starting point for our conversation one thing i picked up on from you guys is patience ,patience patience.... all good things come to those who wait and play thier cards right

[out of control]

Getting back to my quest. So after seeing my girl again in the club and another week of text messaging. I just stopped sending her messages. At first I had to resist the urge but after a few days her grip on my psyche started to loosen. My thoughts began to focus on my ATF who told me she is going to retire but wants to continue to see me. Then this afternoon, after eight days of silence my phone vibrates with a message. She is off next week and wants to get together. Oh the irony. NEXT WEEK I’M OUT OF FUCKING TOWN ALL WEEK. However my new strategy appears to be working. Play it cool and be patient.

[deejaysurfer]

It figures oh the irony is right! Keep trying OOC You'll get there. As I have so far learned. Patience and smarts will ultimately help you achieve your goal. Last night I went back to see if my favorite was in. As luck would have it SHE WAS! So I used the squabble as topic of discussion to get things rollin" and she told me the other girl got fired. I told her I only had eyes for her anyway and then asked her for a dance. Awesome! She gave me one of the best lap dances I ever had there was a lot of roaming allowed and she let me suck on her beautiful pert titties. she also allowed some touching of her kitty and showed it to me a number of times. Then she started rubbing me through my pants again with her hands and then finally rode me like a bull Till I couldn't help But let go. during the dance I approached the subject again of wanting a private dance with her and she asked where in the vip room? I said no I want to hook up with you on the oustside and asked her if she thought that may be possible she said yeah but she needs to get to know me a little better. She then asked me how old I was and I told her and she said. Your old enough to be my father. to which I replied "I can't help it I love Young beautiful girls" and asked her if she thought anything was wrong with that. she said no. She then asked me What if I was your Daughter? to which I answered quite simply "your not" she asked me what type of date do you have in mind like what would we do. At this point I just told her I would like to be with her and promised her I would treat her real nice and also assured her that I am not some stalker who she should be afraid of. I left it at that and asked her when she would be dancin again and told her I would try and make it. First have to see how my wallet is holding up. but over all everthing seems like it is on track for a future hook up. so I'm just gonna keep on truckin and see where this leads me. I figure 2 or three more time At the club and I'll have her hook line and sinker!

[WSG-Stoner]

Hahahhaa...DJ you are the one who is hook lined and sinkered.

Remember...keep it business, man. It will do you better in the end. You need to give her reason$ as well as excuse$ to see you outside. You don't want to be her boyfriend, you just want some poon and a smile.

[deejaysurfer]

Yeah Wsg it may be very well that she has me hooked. But i'm gonna try and be smart about it. I was considering making her an offer last night but need to replenish my hobby fund first. didn't want to make an offer and have her say ok only to not be able to deliver the goods. I will refuel and and make my move when the time is right.

[out of control]

Alright, believe it or not I’m still pursuing my stripper. I’ve managed to stay out of the club for about six weeks but have still kept in touch with the text messages. She actually tried to call me over the weekend and after some texting today she told me she was ready and to get a hotel room. We made a date for Monday. I should start a betting pool to see if she’ll blow me off. I’d say its 50/50 at best. Anyway, in the event that she’s serious, does anyone have some recommendations for a decent room in Manhattan in the $100 range? Preferably mid to uptown. Thanks

[Mr. User Name]

........see if she’ll blow me off.....
Let's hope so !!

[fumpton]

Anyway, in the event that she’s serious, does anyone have some recommendations for a decent room in Manhattan in the $100 range? Preferably mid to uptown. Thanks

best option is to check expedia or travelocity. maybe you'll get a better deal there then booking direct through the hotel.

[Casper]

Bang her in the infamous clown room.

[hacecarne123]

Listen to WSG....
Keep it business....then become friends etc...
It will help save funds for different adventures and make things much easier
Remember they have many boys they just call friends
HC

[WSG-Stoner]

Alright, believe it or not I’m still pursuing my stripper. I’ve managed to stay out of the club for about six weeks but have still kept in touch with the text messages. She actually tried to call me over the weekend and after some texting today she told me she was ready and to get a hotel room. We made a date for Monday. I should start a betting pool to see if she’ll blow me off. I’d say its 50/50 at best. Anyway, in the event that she’s serious, does anyone have some recommendations for a decent room in Manhattan in the $100 range? Preferably mid to uptown. Thanks

I beleive it. There are strippers I've been pursuing for years. lol. You get some quick, you get some slow...as long as you get some.

My bet is...one of her regulars dropped off the scene or the club is not as fun as it used to be. :) Oh...and you are that reg! If you don't spend the money in the club, she'll chase it down outside if she knows its available.

Watch your budget, man. And for gods sake...don't offer up too much cash for some poon. If she wants more money, tell her you know a bunch of guys who'd love to help her pay some bills.

[KitK]

Hey out of control, this is not a new experience for us. Check out Northern New Jersey section and the "Natasha's Heartbreak Club" thread. Alot of us want to believe we are the one and only or at least special, one or lucky two of us may actually win the jackpot; but it the gal's business to keep us interested, make us feel special. Some of us may even get lucky outside the club. But eventually, it hits, often it hurts. In the NHC trread, likesaction has a much better view; he doesn't care if its a scam or not, he's there for the ride.

Good luck and keep your heart out of it. The rest of you can go as deep as you want.

[out of control]

Well she fucked me but not in the way that I wanted. After we set it up for Monday I tried to confirm. (This is all through text messaging) Then she tells me that she wants to make it Tuesday, I knew she was pulling the same shit because I had previously told her that Tuesday was no good. So I told her I’m tired of her games and lets forget the whole thing. So we exchange whatevers and I figure its over. Then she sends me a message about an hour later and she’s pissed and what’s wrong with me. So I call her and she answers the phone and she’s all sweet. She wants to meet on Tuesday. So now I have to make a decision. Would I rather go to a Yankee game or Fuck her . So I tell her Tuesdays good and we arrange a time and a place to meet. Now this hotel I found is $30.00 cheaper if you book online. So on Monday I send her a message that I want to confirm before I book the hotel and nothing. Two hours go by and I’m getting that sinking feeling so I call and leave her a message that I need to hear from her because If she changed her mind I’ve got something else to do. Then she sends me a message that She’s too nervous about and she’s sorry she wasted my time. So I got pissed and sent her some angry messages and end of story. Anyway saw a good Yankee game and actually met a new stripper who cracked me up with stories about her boyfriend who can’t make her come. So as she was dancing for me I told her I would make her come and she gave me her number. I guess I’ll have to continue this thread until I nail a stripper.