A question to you, dear Gentlemen!

[Inga]

I have a question to you Gentlemen, which bugs me every time I visit one of these
escort boards! And, I hope you are not going to be offended!

It is no secret, courtesanship is extremely profitable business for us, ladies. And, the
precious time we are spending on various escort discussion boards we attribute as sort
of "business expenses" aimed to improve our services and justified by the high income
this business generated for us.

But, you my dear Gentlemen, unless you are all retied and lonely very rich men, how
you can explain or justify spending precious non returnable hours of your life daily on
these message boards.( Some of you are posting numerous post in different hours of
the day on different escort boards and daily!) Don't get me wrong! I love these
discussions ( they are very helpful for both gentlemen and ladies) and I do appreciate very
much your participation.

But, dear Gentlemen! Do you have any other interests in life? Any love ones? Any
thing else with what you can enrich your life and lives of others?
Or is it addiction to escort message boards nothing you can do about?

I know, you are all very intelligent, wise men, and just trying to understand you!
Please, be sincere and again, don't be offended!

Yours,

Inga

http://www.europeblue.com/meet.html

[justme]

I'm not sure about everyone else, but I enjoy endlessly meditating on more subtle aspects of 'the hobby'. It's odd, the boards I post too have very little relevant information about where I live, but they all are filled with posts whose themes transcend geography. Every once in a while, I will read something which brings me closer to an understanding as to why I continue to engage in these activities (purchasing what I believe I should essentially be able to get for free). Some of the more subtle pros (no pun intended) and cons (again) of these activities are also revealed and give me a greater comprehension of some of its effects. Finally, through posting and reading I become more focused as to what it is exactly that I am looking for in all of this which makes me a better consumer.

But that's just why I'm here.

As to why I am here (and to a greater degree in other like-places) so often, I can only say that I have found a level of discourse on these boards which excedes that of boards on other subjects by a surprising margin, so I find myself reading almost all the threads and often wanting to respond to them at a higher rate than I might on other on-line resources.

But I do have other hobbies and I spend time reading up on them as well (www.audiogon.com, for example)

And, of course, I would never spend more time chatting on-line than I do talking in real life (scary thought, huh?).

[Slinky Bender]

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[pswope]

Inga
too many longgggggggg boring conference calls. So I purchased a handsfree headset and learned to mutlitask. As you know,some of us need more stimulation than others.

[guy catelli]

Originally posted by slinkybender
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OCD = "of course, dear"?

[TuckernotSucker]

Well, since you asked, here it is:
Many of us persue this expensive hobby to see what it is to gain information. To see lovely ladies that are proven to be man lovers as opposed to man haters.
I for one am addicted to these boards and although I am not one of the most frequent posters, I do read them.
It is for this purpose that I have started a 12 step program for people who wish to alleviate themselves from this addiction.
If it takes more then 12 steps to walk to a ladies abode, would we still do it? I dont know the answer. But I will keep on trying.
BTW if you wish to join, please email me.

[MrNY]

:)

[Geezy Muldoon]

Impression.

[Edited by Judge Crater on 07-25-2001 at 02:34 PM]

[frog]

Originally posted by slinkybender
... OCD OCD ...

and he didn't even cut & paste...

that's it -- cold turkey for a week.

[fishfry]

I'm happy to respond to this thoughtful question. For several years I've been an active participant on prostitution-related Internet boards on subjects ranging from Nevada brothels to San Francisco streets, the bars of Tijuana and the post-Giuliani scene in New York City.

I've always liked commercial sex. I started in Times Square when I was about 12, hanging out in the peep shows. Over the years I've been in straight relationships. But I never outgrew my enjoyment of prostitutes, strippers, massage parlor girls, streetwalkers, working girls of every type and stripe.

Thing is, I thought I was the only guy in the world who did it. I thought there was something wrong with me. It was a shameful secret I hid from my friends.

Then the Internet came along. For the first time men could talk to each other -- and to the women who chose to participate -- about commercial sex. We trade stories, have flame wars, promote our favorite providers, and have a good time. It sure beats slinking off into the shadows thinking "nobody must know!" No more of that for me!

I'v even met men -- lots of them -- through these boards. It's amazing. They are so fucking normal you wouldn't believe it. And very mellow by and large. Unlike a lot of guys in this society, we get ourselves some good lovin' when we need it. And we do so honestly, exchanging value for value.

On these boards I've found an outlet to share my experiences with other men. To give advice and get advice. Can you imagine the days before the Internet? When a man went out to find a prostitute, how the hell would he know what he's doing? He'd be more likely to get ripped off, short-timed, bad-attituded. The public discussion of prices, ripoffs, bbbjs and all the rest has immensely improved the quality of my experience and that of many other men. It's shined the light of human communication on this once-secret part of life.

These message boards are a creative outlet; a source of information; a source of personal empowerment; and most of all, just good clean fun.

fishfry999@hotmail.com

[Ozzy]

inga,

it's a very simple answer

we got too much free time.


mrny's answer is second.

[guy catelli]

dear Inga,

the best courtesans encourage the gentlemen who seek their companionship to practice the literary arts. the very best ones actually require gentlemen to do so -- for example, Claire Booth Luce.

there is probably nothing that a wise courtesan would more want than that prospective gentleman companions spend their free time preoccupied with the subject of professional companionship.

sincerely,

guy

[Inga]

But, still you did not answer my question, frankly, primarily was aimed to you!
Unfortunately, I was given to you to much credit to expect from you any sincere
answer... I know I have gotten to your very soar wound! And, I am sorry for that!
Believe me, I do admire and respect you after reading your very
thoughtful and interesting posts on many boards. I am your friend!
And, I was truly trying to help you! At list I tried....

And to other gentlemen who was kind and brave to answer my question:
I thank you very much for that!

Your
little
friend
Inga

[Edited by Inga on 02-02-2001 at 09:06 AM]

[guy catelli]

Originally posted by Inga

But, still you did not answer my question, frankly, primarily was aimed to you!............


scribito, ergo, sum.

[justme]

Scribo ergo sum?

[guy catelli]

Originally posted by justme
Scribo ergo sum?

tu es rectus.

[Slinky Bender]

On this board, we prefer Greek to Latin ( i.e. knock it off ).

[Phantom]

WHY would you expect anything else from an altarboy?

[guy catelli]

do i detect a note of prejudice against "roman" (a eumphemism for orgy)?

[justme]

On this board, we prefer Greek to Latin ( i.e. knock it off ).

That's just plain racisistic.

scribo ergo sum - I write therefore I am.

[guy catelli]

Originally posted by justme
....I write therefore I am.

i write in latin because i'm a Romantic. ;)

[HornDogBuddah]

Re: GC's query about the meaning of OCD -- I finally know one of these damned acronyms that someone else doesn't! Usually I'm the one playing the dictionary game.

But the amazing thing about SB's OCD posting is that he was able to stop on his own. Or did someone unplug his keyboard?

[CLowell]

Inga, Inga, Inga . . . He said to himself while shaking his head ruefully!

I am surprised that a woman engaged in a profession that depends on the obsessive impulses of men would have to ask that question.

You only need to look to at the fact that you are making very good money to give us something that we could get for free from Girlfriends, wives, bar sluts, etc. We are obsessed with women and anything about them!

I thought at least a provider would understand that!


Will they ever learn guys!?!?!?!?

[Slinky Bender]

HrnDgBuddah,
Smene tk the " " key ff my cmputer.

[guy catelli]

Originally posted by Inga:
I have a question to you Gentlemen, which bugs me every time I visit one of these
escort boards! And, I hope you are not going to be offended!

Inga, you're telling us you're 'bugged' by our posting every time you visit an escort board -- why would we be offended?

It is no secret, courtesanship is extremely profitable business for us, ladies. And, the
precious time we are spending on various escort discussion boards we attribute as sort
of "business expenses" aimed to improve our services and justified by the high income
this business generated for us.

{nods}

But, you my dear Gentlemen, unless you are all retied and lonely very rich men, how
you can explain or justify spending precious non returnable hours of your life daily on
these message boards.

brava, Inga, brava! i couldn't agree with you more. some time ago, on another board, a thread was started by a client who complained that the time escorts were spending online was time they should have been spending in the gym to improve their appearance. now, you have turned the tables, as well you should, and asked why clients are spending time online when they could be out earning more money.

but, the reason we are here is because we have a love for truth, beauty, art, and contemplating the nature of the life well lived. so, we complement one another perfectly!

(Some of you are posting numerous post in different hours of the day on different escort boards and daily!)

{bowing} yes, this is true -- it is all part of the spirit of Romanticism.

Don't get me wrong! I love these discussions (they are very helpful for both gentlemen and ladies) and I do appreciate very much your participation.

now i am confused. are we damned if we do and damned if we don't?

But, dear Gentlemen! Do you have any other interests in life? Any love ones? Any thing else with what you can enrich your life and lives of others? Or is it addiction to escort message boards nothing you can do about?

as i have always said, Inga, if i wanted 'the girl next door' ... i would go next door.

I know, you are all very intelligent, wise men, and just trying to understand you! Please, be sincere and again, don't be offended!

{nods some more}

Yours,

Inga

http://www.europeblue.com/meet.html

Originally posted by Inga:

But, still you did not answer my question, frankly, primarily was aimed to you!
Unfortunately, I was given to you to much credit to expect from you any sincere
answer...

Inga, how can you say i am "insincere"? don't i sign every one of my letters to you "sincerely, guy"? we hardly know each other and already we are having our first public quarrel -- are you sure you are not italian?

I know I have gotten to your very soar wound! And, I am sorry for that!

ah, that image is almost Chloenic! i can see my wound soaring over the horizon, dispelled by your charm and beauty :).

Believe me, I do admire and respect you after reading your very thoughtful and interesting posts on many boards.

Inga, i am now more confused than ever. how can you admire and respect my posts unless i take the time to write them?

I am your friend! And, I was truly trying to help you! At list I tried....And to other gentlemen who was kind and brave to answer my question: I thank you very much for that!

and, i am truly trying to help you, Inga. that's why i wrote to tell you about all the kind and brave gentlemen here at UG!

Your
little
friend
Inga

sincerely,

guy


[Edited by guy catelli on 02-03-2001 at 09:15 AM]