GFE?

[cframp]

Well, if ain't obvious from the two consecutive posts, I'm gonna stop lurkin' and start postin'.

I'm a little confused by this GFE ideal. Sure, I want to get along with a woman. I want to have a great time. But what I'm really looking for is a very attractive woman who won't say no. Alright, I'm exaggerating, saying yes is not the only criteria: I'd also like her to be really good in bed.

This always seems to be a limiting factor in my choices. Which I suppose would be obvious. But what it does more than anything is send me up the pay scale. I guess what I am wondering is this, does GFE make a less attractive woman worthwhile? Am I just too much of a newbie (although I'm a top prospect for the majors) to understand what GFE is all about? Thoughts? Comments? Criticism? Bad jokes?

[Slinky Bender]

"There were these two gay midgets screwing a dead alligator in an alley.....". 10 points if you know where that's from.


GFE has been debated far and wide. Part of the problem is that guys can't agree on what it really is. Some say it is DFK, or other such "intimate" acts. I think that guys use it too often as shorthand for a good experience.

[musicmannyc]

I have read all the comments about GFE on many different boards and everyone has their own view on the subject. I for one have changed my view on this subject the last few months. The best way that I can explain it is that GFE is a soft core porn experience and a PSE is a XXX experience. On the far end of the spectrum is the human masturbation machine that only wishes to get you off as quickly as possible. What truly makes GFE so addictive is the perception that the woman is enjoying this time as much or more than you.
The individual acts are not as important as the sense that a connection has been made and that passion and lust wash away the finanical transaction.

[frog]

Sometimes I want the fabled GFE, for me, that means long bouts of sex, with BBBJ and DFK. She doesn't have to enjoy it for real as long as I think she is enjoying it. Now, my typical GFs are not too nasty, so these should be pretty and sweet girls. Sometimes, I want the PSE, so I want the highly skilled girls, who don't have to look like they are enjoying it, but know how to make me squirm, and then take a big frog load on their face. Smetimes, I want the supermodel. These girls tend to be lazy, without particular skills except the ability to look amazing.

Of course I want it all most of the time, but will settle for one of these at times.